When ur a lesbian and you have sex do you still use dildo's? My friend is coming over and we are going to have sex. I dont know if i should get my dildo or not to use on her. So do i still use dildo's for pleasure or do i just finger her and fist her? |
| You should ask your friend, she might prefer a vibe over a dildo. |
How many women really use dildo's? I have never used a dildo before, however it has been a LONG time since I have had sex. I thought about purchasing one, but am a little embarrassed. Is this something that women use a lot, or is it something that people talk about, but never use? |
| lots of women use them yeah. but, if you truely want one too, but too embarrassed to get one, then buy one online |
Do I need to use lubricant with my dildo? I'm about to use a dildo for the first time and I'm wondering if I'll absolutely need lube. I get really wet just by rubbing my clit, so would that be enough for it to be comfortable using my dildo? Also, I have a jelly dildo, so if I do need lube, could anyone recommend one that works best for jellies? Thanks. |
| If you don't need much help getting wet, KY will work just fine. Anything they sell at your nearest mega-mart or drug store will work fine. |
Why do i get a really bad pain in my cervix area after i use a dildo? I've been getting a really bad pain in my lower abdomen area after i use a dildo ( i tend to use it roughly) I've gotten the pain a few times now, it usually lasts for an hour or so. I'm really worried, i think i might have torn something, Please help me! |
| I think you might be shoving it up there a little too hard and a little too far which irritates or bruises your cervix and causes cramping. I wouldn't worry about it. Once, with out knowing, I had a condom stuck up there for 2 whole days and didn't know why I experiencing all this discomfort and cramping. I did some searching and sure enough, there it was! Yeah, I'm an idiot. but the tiniest thing will cause all that cramping. I think our sexual organs are more sensitive than you think and being rough with them could cause discomfort for a few days later, but you don't have anything to worry about. it happens to a lot of women, especially after rough sex. |
I showed my sister how to use a dildo? I don't want to ask my mom if it's right but last week I showed my little sister how to use my dildo because like every girl has one and things. But now like every morning before school she wants me to do it. I really just like seeing it go in and out it's funny but she keeps asking even after school. Is it wrong if it's just a funny thing? |
Get her one for herself and lock her in her room for an hour or so.
She'll have plenty of fun and you don't need to be there. |
What items around the house can i use as a dildo? I'm 14 and male. I can't go to a sex shop and buy a dildo or order one online. So i would like to know what i can use to stick in my anus other than my finger. I'd like something thick and long. Also, what is the best lube i can find at home. |
| my dick |
Can you really use a cucumber as a dildo? If you have a condom over it will it not do you any harm?
also, if you use a dildo before having sex does it make the first time less painful? |
I've used cucumbers and other fruits and veggies before, like carrots, bananas and zucchinis. I don't know about the condom part because I never used a condom with them. Just make sure to wash them off really good and cut off any rough parts first. It can be dangerous if you don't wash it because of pesticides and stuff and I've also heard that you can cut yourself if it has any sharp edges, but as long as it's clean and smooth you should be okay. I think you'll definitely be safe if you put a condom over it.
For the second question, I don't really know to tell you the truth. I started masturbating with different things before I had sex and sex didn't hurt at all for me my first time, but I know other girls who said their first times hurt like hell so maybe it's just me. |
Is it gay for a guy to use a dildo on himself? Lets say a guy uses a dildo on his anal, is that gay? |
| You are gay if you are attracted to the same sex... |
How do I use a dildo analy? Im 15 and I anally masturbate I bought a dildo and I need to know how to use it properly. Can someone help? |
| ...Ew. |
What are good items around the house I can use as a homemade dildo? I'm horny alot and want a dildo but don't think I'm old enough to buy one, I've tried hairbrush handles but they don't work for me..what's a better item or any ideas you have or a penetrative big item for me to use as a dildo...plz help me :) |
| i use mascara tube. i was wondering the same quesion though. lol |