Should i tell my girlfriend i fantasize about having sex with a shemale? im not gay and i have never had a gay experience. but for some reason i think really hot shemales turn me on. Should i tell my girlfriend? what should i do? should i persue this further? |
That could become an issue between you and your girlfriend.
Pursuing that fantasy is not a good idea. Most of the opportunities that you would have are with prostitutes. These prostitutes are mostly gay guys in drag that are able to charge more than for regular gay sex.
Transwomen would not be interested in you. You are what we call a chaser. You are interested in the mixed body parts. We transwomen do not like being treated as sex objects. We are real people.
And lastly, please do not use the term "shemale". The term is a creation of the porn industry. Transwomen find the term extremely offensive. |
Would you have sex with a shemale? I always thought some of them were kinda hot, but I am not gay, is this wrong for me to fantasize about doing one of them? |
It a bit out of my league, and I thought I was open to most stuff.
It take a certain kind of person for that I guess.
Not to worry fantasy comes in all forms. While I must agree that one is a wild one. The point is that its common for males to think strange stuff up. That one is a bit out there but not un-common in the new world.
I'm more old world. You are not alone out there that is for sure. So while its a wild and out there, many people like you think about that.
In scientific perspective the male genitals and the female ones are actually very similar. Girls for instance have foreskins, and penises too. Every time we have sex with them we are really having sex with a human that has certain Genes turn on and others turned off.
There is only one mold from which both come from.
So while its not what I might fancy. There really is little difference in the material layout. Most males would find it somewhat repulsive. I don't think males are good looking and cannot figure out why females like us.
My drive has always been to females cause I just like them. How they look and how they smell and stuff. So for me I never would want one. Sexual drive can make males do things they would not normally do.
I mean think about it. Nature has us sticking our dinngy into a girls privates. No guy would ever consider it. Later our drive to do just that is over powering.
Be safe... There are a lot of strange things in life and that one is out there. Hoping to get the best answer,
Not sure I did though... |
Help with sex question please!?!? ok me and my boyfriend are having some trouble. we have been dating for over a year now and the sex is getting a little boring for both of us. A friend of mine suggested we try watching a little porn before we have sex and I thought it was a good idea, only my boyfriend doesnt like the idea of watching some guy have sex. I think he thinks Ill be more into the pornstar then him. So my friend came up with another idea. this time im just gonna spring it on him. She suggested we watch transsexual porn. I dont mind it and Im pretty sure he wont either, as long as its not another guy. I showed him a picture of a transsexual pornstar named Ashley George and he said she was pretty hot. He doesnt know shes a shemale yet though. I was wondering if anyone knew where i can find Free full videos of her. I was thinking about joining her site but its pretty expensive. So does anyone know have any idea where I can get full videos free? |
| WTF tell your bf to man up! the only reason its boring is bc you do the same damn thing almost every time. Try new positions,environments more foreplay its not calculus |
Am i gay if i accidently watch shemale porn and i am not gay? ok well PLEASE HELP ME GET THIS RIGHT i was watching straight porn for a very long time and i saw some lesbian porn, i liked it than they started using strap on's i found it hot i mean i watch porn to watch a woman not a man so its 4 boobs and not 2 boobs and yea well if your a guy you know so than i saw this shemale thing and i thought of it as like woman haveing sex with strap on's x10 like real thing but than after watching it i asked myself is it gay? but i never ejaculated to it until now... i accidently did it and i never ment to!!! now i feel bad i have never watch gay porn nor do i plan on to and i have had a few girl friends i am not attracted to men but i am to women also i dont like shemale porn when im straight just the regular thing i think i watched it because i was very horny and was kinda looking for a thrill and something new but now i am never going to watch it again because i feel very nasty about myself but yea please tell me what you think i would very much appreciate it thanks, oh and no negitive comments ...please i am already depressed |
I've seen this question on ED. Funny enough, it's on the wiki page for Yahoo! Answers.
Nice try, though. |
What's the problem with a Shemale? Sup?
Alrite, I was backpacking in Australia in January when I met this really hot chick in Sydney. I'm 27 btw and shes 29. We got on really well and hit off from the start.
To cut a long story short, I decided to stay over there and we rented a flat together. We didn't have sex at all until we came home from a night out and were really drunk.
I'm there on the bed kissing her and next thing she hops out this c*ck. So, being drunk I just continued, but f*cked her up the arsé 69r style. We had great oral sex as well (as far as I can remember) and fell asleep.
Next mornin you can imagine my horror when the night's events flood back to me but then I kinda didn't mind after that. We didn't talk about it at all, but that night we made love again, this time purely sober.
I don't really feel guilty about this and I know I'm not gay but is it okay to be doing this?
To be honest I don't mind anal sex and I enjoy giving her a bl*wjob so it's fine. I mean she is really hot, she's well tanned and looks totally like a woman. Her face is sooo pretty. She sounds like a natural Aussie girl and her body is curvy and built like a girl so how the hell does she have a penis?
We still didn't talk about it, either she is really embarrased or she is afraid we'll break up if we do.
I'm not gone on the idea of guys, and I presume we can't have any and we can adopt if needs be. It's totally not obvious when she's wearing clothes that she has a nob, I mean I even went swimming with her before I decided to stay and I didn't notice it.
I feel slightly betrayed that she let me give up my life back home and move in with her without telling me, to be honest I probably would have stayed anyway.
Pussiies are overrated!
I think I'll talk it over with her tonight when she gets home from work, but I just want to know what do you think, is she a shemale, and why would she get a penis attached? (cos she obviously started out as a woman) What would you do if you were in my shoes?
I'm deeply in love with her and I would love to marry her, so I won't break it off with her. |
Sorry to burst your bubble, but your girlfriend was born as a man. There is no surgery currently available to give a woman a functioning penis.
Also, she's not a shemale. A shemale is a porn star. Your girlfriend is a preoperative transsexual, or transwoman. She is a woman who was born in a man's body, and she's taking the corrective measures to transition her body to match the rest of her.
The two of you really need to sit down and discuss this openly and candidly. You're running around with a bunch of really whacked out notions about your girlfriend, and she really needs to set the record straight with you. If you two can't communicate about this, you really need to question why you're together to begin with. Good luck. |
Husband loves shemale questions?????? ok im going to be truthfull for starters. my husband loves to watch shemale porn, he know that im aware of it however whenever i walk in the room if he was watching it he would quickly turn it off, and if i said let me see why you like those stuff he would say no i caint let you see it cause its nasty. then i would said then y u interested in them he said they just funny to me.
however he doesnt like to have sex with me i could be naked tasing him he would turn me down
dont get me wrong i look freaking hot naked |
| sounds like you need a marriage councillor. |
Hey,im 15 n i like girls a lot,but im fat n i dont think any girl wud date me,so i had sex with a guy? i watch straight,lesbian n shemale porn.i never watch gay porn......i hav only had sex once with a guy(in the ***).....but i hav given him blowjobs a few times....i dont kiss him....v both giv each other blowjobs wen v watch porn only....v only do it 2 please ourselves....v dont hold hands,hug,kiss,lick our cums,watch gay porn....v hav never done these....i luv girls,i think they r hot,i wanna **** a pussy 2...but im fat...so i get blowjobs from a guy...does this make me gay? |
dont have sex with a guy just get into a study group with girls, go watch girls play volleyball who are on the volleyball team.
ask a girl that seems to be somewhat out of shape if she wants to on walks with you lead up to it at least.
That way you will have not given up on the natural order of the way things are suppose to be.
dont do gay things do girl things. no you are not gay you have just been ignorant you made a mistake |
Dare to answer this.open challenge to you.? Suppose,you fallen in love with a beautiful girl.Both of you develope best relationship.After some time passed,both of you get excited n go for sex.after hot n wild foreplay you shocked after you realized that she is SHEMALE.WHAT WILL YOU DO AT THAT TIME AND WILL YOU PREFER TO KEEP RELATIONS IN FUTURE? |
| Honestly, I'd break it off. That's a pretty big secret to be keeping, especially if that person suspected things might go that far. |
Does this make u gay? If have sex with a shemale. .........It is a girl part guy penis so is it gay if u have sex with a shemale? Because theres one across da street and she hot okey but don't want to turn gay , he je je je ah ah ah! |
| It really doesn't matter, after all you're already a latent homosexual. |
I'm a teen guy and want to know how normal is this? the other day I was at one of my friend's houses and we were looking at pornos on the internet. I have a girlfriend, I'm 16, and i just lost my virginity (it was great, I love it!) Anyways, I always looked only at normal porno before, but we were looking at all this weird stuff and we looked up shemales. I thought it would totally gross me out but I was kind of turned on by them having sex and stuff. I went home later that day and I was masturbating to porn on my computer (I always do that) and then I went on some shemale site again- It made me feel bad and weird but it was exciting. I looked a couple more times since and I still like normal porno too and I really, really love my girlfriend- she's hot and I think she's bi too! But this is really confusing to me and kind of makes me feel bad. Is it normal for teen guys to be confused about stuff like this and do you think I'm bi now? I'm kind of scared. Oh yeah, i only like girls in my school and stuff, never guys. |
Yes, you're perfectly normal. Porn is designed to get you aroused. That's why it exists. And most people have a little bit of bisexuality in them, apparently, whether they do anything about it or not. Our culture discourages them from ever admitting it, though. Nothing to be scared of. You are what you are, and teen years are when you discover what you are. If your buddies weren't also being turned on by gay porn, they wouldn't have been watching it, would they? Why don't you ask them how it makes them feel? Maybe they're as worried as you and knowing you feel the same will make them feel better.
The obvious advice is to lay off of the porn! This is why parents get so upset over their guys seeing porn, because it brings out feelings and sensations that they aren't old enough to know how to deal with yet. |