Does wearing my training bra to bed at camp make me a lesbian? So i was at camp with my friends, and i decided to wear my training bra to bed in order to save clean tops. Does this make me a lesbian? |
| No, all it means is that you are sensible. Someone is born lesbian, it is a way that you feel and what you do/wear does not make you one. |
Lesbian in my weight training class? she follows me ..................and she is a lesbian |
| what is your question? |
Okay, so I'm definitely a lesbian. Someone tell me how this all works? lol? Alright here is a good one. Listen! I know someone out there can help me out.
I am a 23 year old AA female. I have known for many years that I am not attracted to men at all. However due to pressure from my family to get married and my own personal religious beliefs I decided to try to ol' "force fit" denial technique. I threw myself into numerous heterosexual relationships and I was even engaged once. But the inevitable truth is... I don't see a man in my future.
So now here I am. Single, college educated, good career and ready to embrace my sexuality.
I'm most definitely sexually attracted to women. It's a solid, without a doubt fact. But I've never had an intimate relationship with a woman.
Here is the problem. Now that I'm sure what "team" I'm playing for I'm finding it hard to enter the "scene"
I'm bombarded with terms like dom and aggressive, femme and butch and "lipstick lesbian"
I suppose I am a femme who is attracted to other feminine women?
I also see that sometimes other lesbians aren't very welcoming to "1st timers." I can understand that because no one wants to feel like an experiment. But where do I start? When I go on dating sites sometimes I feel like no one wants to give me a chance because no one wants to help me take off my lesbian training wheels. lol.
Any suggestions on where to look? Or...can I chat with you? |
learning to be comfortable with your own sexuality can be very difficult at first. you want to find someone who'll help to guide you and not make you feel bad about being a "first timer" also, don't worry about labeling yourself a "lipstick lesbian" or anything.
just like with a heterosexual relationship, just be who you are, and you'll figure things out when the time is right. there's no need to stress yourself out by worrying about what kind of lesbian you are.
you've come to terms with yourself and your loved ones, the hard part is over. |
How do you ask someone out if you don't know if they are lesbian? I'm bi and going into 9th grade now and a different school. In 7th, I really liked my teacher and in 8th I figured out I actually love her. Sometimes a see another teacher (woman) that takes the train home with her and I think that other teacher might be in a relationship with her so I'm not sure if she's lesbian or not. I think she knows I love her because I have a habit of buying her things. |
Don't do anything, even if she was a lesbian, she cannot be in a relationship with you. If she did she could be fired and arrested for statutory rape.
Find someone more your age. |
How do you train a lesbian segal to cage fight timothy radost style of kind ie rocket pants? please answer this i will give you a free dinner at sizzler |
| cannot be done |
If some men and women serving in the military do not accept the gay and lesbian lifestyle and vehemently...? oppose that lifestyle, will those people be subject to disciplinary action and possible discharge?
Will they be forced to go to humiliating and mind altering sensibility training where they'll be forced to change their views or be discharged?
Where will THEIR protectors come from? Who will stick up for THEIR rights and what THEY believe???
Will all those who disagree with the gay and lesbian lifestyle be kicked out of the service? |
I do believe that there will be many service members who will be discharged because of their disapproval of openly homosexual service members flaunting that lifestyle in their face. I also believe many good service members will choose to voluntarily leave the service and I believe recruitment will suffer as well.
I believe that from now forward (until Conservatives repeal the repeal) anytime a homosexual member of the military has ANYTHING done to them that they don't like, they will claim prejudice and harassment and cause some service members to be disciplined for nothing more than doing their job.
This is gonna be a mess. All because the democraps had to pay off a voting block. |
What's the strangest gay/lesbian couple you've ever seen? I saw these two little boys around nine and ten sucking the faces off each other at the train station today, bold as brass. It was disturbing.
(You should have heard the noise they were making, I was on the fcking train and I could hear them). LMFAO. |
| lmao, i would've been like 'WTF, are you guys guys, or just small adults?' |
Im a lesbian and i really like this girl we are both in the army...? We are both in our school training and in the same class and sleep in the same quarters... I really like her and so do a couple other females. How do I tell her? She knows that I am a lesbian... idk I just really like her but idk if she likes me also... just help me lease? |
| well, i guess you should ask her =D of course, not directly, usually women know how to say things using other words, i'm sure you will figure it out =D good luck |
Does a lesbian coworker have a crush on me? I got a promotion at my job and I have been trained in different areas. My boss said that he wanted me to help Donna since her load has picked up for covering her job and another coworker's that is on medical. I had no problem covering because this increased my training skills. But to thank me Donna bought me a 5th of Grey Goose. I guess it was from a conversation a group of us were having about our favorite "drinks". She said I helped her out immensely and took a burden off her shoulders and she was able to catch up on her work. She has never made a pass. No winks or "the look". I may be reading into it more that I should because I KNOW she is gay. But signs should I look for in the future? |
I'd just be whole lot less paranoid if I were you. Gays can actually say 'thank you' just like straights if one of you do us a nice turn.
She hasn't come on to you, so don't make it into an issue it isn't. That's just being offensive. |
Do i sound like a lesbian to you? Ever since I was younger i have had an emotional attachment to women where i imagine other women are my mum or are caring/nurturing me. I don't see this as being a lesbian just a unique part of who I am.
One day i started randomly worrying if i was a lesbian and made myself have sexual thoughts about women. i got through phases where i worry f i'm a lesbian or not, when i am worrying i have these sexual thoughts even though i don't want too.
Before this one day i used to always imagine having a relationship with guys, and enjoyed these thoughts i even had a crush on my male teacher for over a year.
You know how people say they get turned on by guys in public? i don't get this but i imagine being in a relationship with them and like imagining that. I sometimes feel a strong admiration and maternal/ caring attraction towards other women.
When i saw two lesbians on the train the other day, i tried to imagine myself being a lesbian and i just couldn't it didn't feel right. i cant imagine ever being in a relationship with girls, only guys.
i have in the past and recently masturbated thinking of having sex with guys.
is it possible to have a strong emotional attachment/ connection with women and not be a lesbian?
Ever since I was younger i have had an emotional attachment to women where i imagine other women are my mum or are caring/nurturing me. I don't see this as being a lesbian just a unique part of who I am.
One day i started randomly worrrying if i was a lesbian and made myself have sexual thoughts about women. i got through phases where i worry if im a lesbian or not, when i am worrying i have these sexual thoughts even though i dont want too.
Before this one day i used to always imagine having a relationship with guys, and enjoyed these thoughts i even had a crush on my male teacher for over a year.
When i saw two lesbians on the train the other day, i tried to imagine myself being a lesbian and i just couldnt it didn't feel right. i cant imagine ever being in a relationship with girls, only guys.
You know how people say they get turned on by guys in public? i dont get tgis but i imagine being in a relationship with them and like imagiing that. I sometimes feel a strong admiration and maternal/ caring attraction towards other women.
i have in the past and recently masturbated thinking of having sex with guys. and i enjoy doing this!!!!
i'm 18 have anxiety and a bit if OCD and have never been in a proper relationship before. |
| no, i would think that you just want more of that motherly figure in your life. kinda like it would be if a girl grew up without their father in their life as much.. if you dont want a relationship with a woman as some would with a man, or are sexually attracted to a woman, as some would be with a man. then i wouldnt say that your a lesbian. but there is no need to label yourself. it all depends just on what you want in life, and in a partner. (: |