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I went to a nude beach in Miami and got an erection lying next to three teenage girls? I felt bad. Is this ok? I went to a nude beach for the first time last weekend and surprisingly got completely naked and enjoyed it. I found myself wanting to place my beach towel near the girls who were at the beach. Surprisingly many girls went topless or wore a thong or bikini and didnt get nude. For some reason I really got off lying nude next to them being naked. Often times they would look and sometimes I would get some giggles cause I am only an inch flaccid. I must have been at the beach all day long. Finally towards the end, I saw three teenage girls probably 13-18 years old and lied next to them, and got an erection. They seem amused and were laughing. I knew they were younger and thats probably why they stared and giggled but for some reason I got so turned on by being at this nude beach. My question is it wrong to go for this reason? Is it ok to go to a clothing optional beach to show off your body. I never approached any girls or made any lewd remarks or anything and dont want to. Please help. | | Don't feel like it's unnatural to get an erection. Of course it's ok. I'm sure it wasn't the first time that they have seen a guy turned on by them, so it's ok. Teenage girls at a nude beach? That doesn't sound right to me, though. Where were their parents? As young as 13 years old? Hmmmmmmm........ | Why is it ok for 13 and 14 year olds to go to a nude beach? Why is it ok for 13 and 14 year olds to go to a nude beach?
I went to a clothing optional beach last weekend in Miami, Florida and I was surprised at how many minors were on the beach. Most of them seemed to be in groups with their friends. How does the law allow a 12 or 13 year old girl to be around grown naked men like that but in any other scenario it would be considered inappropriate and illegal. I am 31 years old and I was lying nude near the shore and when it turned to my right, I saw 5 teenage girls lying nearby none of them looked over 14. I felt weird because there I was totally naked on my back with my one incher there and these girls were looking over. I then took my towel, put on my flops and left to another part of the beach. Low and behold there was like 5 teens over there also, 3 boys and two girls. I felt like the beach was full of middle age or high school age guys. Why isnt this illegal? None of those girls were nude. In fact they all had on shorts or skirts. This leads me into thinking they are there to gawk. Isnt this wrong? | The only thing about what you saw that could ever be illegal is if an adult was touching or harassing them in any way. I actually approve of the trend for the treatment and display of the human body in a more casual and acceptable way. Now this is not to say that there isn’t a time and place for nudity. I would not consider it to be acceptable for you or them to be wandering around the public streets nude, unless it was a clothing optional community. You expect to find nude people on a nude beach, so you shouldn’t be surprised when you do.
Now I can sympathize with you’re your embarrassment, after all you were brought up in an age where nudity was not acceptable in any shape or form. You have been engrained with the idea that every part of you that is “normally” covered is an embarrassment when it is not. You have also been taught from a very early age, that nudity is not acceptable until you are “Grown up”. The thing to understand here is that you were only one person on a whole beach full of people similarly equipped. And I’m sure they were not there to look at you.
You did do the right thing, you felt uncomfortable, and instead of making them go away with threats of legal action, you simply went some place else. That practice should be the way any situation is handled where we feel uncomfortable or don’t approve. If you hear something on the radio you don’t like, listen to a different station. Don’t write complaint letters to the owners or the FCC. If you don’t like what’s on a channel on TV, Change the channel, don’t try and get it taken off the air. If a go-go bar opens up in your neighborhood, then don’t go there if you don’t like it. If you don’t like people smoking in a restaurant, then go to a different restaurant. (I’m a NON-Smoker by the way).
Similarly, if you don’t want your guyren hearing or seeing these things, then it’s up to you to control them. It shouldn’t be that they are allowed to “Run Around” unattended while the rest of us have our right to participate taken away.
The point I’m trying to make is that you can’t impress your values, however good and right they may be, on the rest of society. The only thing those young girls and guys are guilty of is making you feel embarrassed. Also they may have felt a little self-conscious about their bodies, so they put on some clothing to feel better. A practice that in and of itself is acceptable. Remember where your were, it was a Clothing Optional beach, so right there in the name, you have the option to be nude, semi-nude or not nude at all. So why should they be made to change their ways simply to accommodate your feelings. After all Body Acceptance is the whole idea behind the naturist philosophy. You can’t have it both ways. | Moms, would it bother you if your teenage son wanted to be nude around the house? I have been a nudist since I was 16 but never in front of my mother becasue I don't know how she would take it. I only practised nudism at the beach. Would it bother you if your teenage son wanted to be nude at home or in the yard? Would you encourage it or maybe take the liberty yourself to get nude too? | | While I'm not a mother yet, I don't see any problem with it. I became a nudist when I was a teen and my mother hated it. I'd like to be able to say I'm a cool mom who let her guys be nudists if they want to and give them the chance I never had. | Why is it ok for 13 and 14 year olds to go to a nude beach? I went to a clothing optional beach last weekend in Miami, Florida and I was surprised at how many minors were on the beach. Most of them seemed to be in groups with their friends. How does the law allow a 12 or 13 year old girl to be around grown naked men like that but in any other scenario it would be considered inappropriate and illegal. I am 31 years old and I was lying nude near the shore and when it turned to my right, I saw 5 teenage girls lying nearby none of them looked over 14. I felt weird because there I was totally naked on my back with my one incher there and these girls were looking over. I then took my towel, put on my flops and left to another part of the beach. Low and behold there was like 5 teens over there also, 3 boys and two girls. I felt like the beach was full of middle age or high school age guys. Why isnt this illegal? None of those girls were nude. In fact they all had on shorts or skirts. This leads me into thinking they are there to gawk. Isnt this wrong? | I don't know about here in the USA, but in France & many other European nations, it is often the case that entire families participate in "naturalisme." If you think about it, a 4 year old could probably care less one way or another about whether he or else wears clothes at the beach; it is only in societies where we teach that nudity is necessarily equated to sexuality and hence is "something dirty" that a 4 year old, or a 10 year old, or even a 14 year old, might be upset about seeing a stranger naked.
That said, there are certainly some very strong sexual harassment laws in this country that you think would make it impossible for teenagers and adults to legally hang out at the same nude beach unless the parents of the teenagers signed some waiver and accepted responsibility for the whole thing. If I were an adult male, I would certainly be a bit nervous about teenage girls seeing me naked, and I might question the propriety or at least the legality of such an arrangement. After all, all it takes is for one of those girls to claim that you did something inappropriate for you to get into some major trouble. So maybe those teenagers just have irresponsible parents, or maybe they're European. | Nudists, nude beaches, and things of that sort.? If a teenage boy were to go to a nude beach and see a woman's body and has an erection, would people be disgusted by him?
It can be understandable that the boy does not know how to control his erection, but could this be a reason that some people do not want to be nudists? Because they're afraid of being misunderstood? | I believe that you have to be an adult to attend a nude beach. If someone gets erect, and tries to conceal it or tone it down, others will understand. If he strokes it or lets it stick way out, that's uncool, and people will tell you to put it away or leave.
Nude beaches are not for sex, they are so people can enjoy the freedom of being in their natural state. | Was this bad ettiquette at a clothing optional beach? I was at a clothing optional beach recently and got nude for the first time. I really enjoyed it and spent the whole day there subathing nude and walking the shore. Well, the beach had a couple outside shower stalls there where about 4 people can wash their feet. Well, I went there to wash my feet and three young teenage girls came over in bikinis and also were washing up and as I was standing there, I caught an erection which was standing at 4 inches and continued washing my butt and anus. The girls giggled and laughed and then left. Should I have left first? Should I have apologized? Was I wrong | | If the girls were offended, they would have let you know. Their giggling was caused by the embarassment of seeing you erect. No big deal. Erections are not the norm at nude beaches, but they do happen (speaking from experiences in Europe). You gave them something to talk about for a while and maybe some fantasies for their 'alone time.' | Does anyone under 37 ever go to nude beaches? I am 18 and I went to a nude beach recently and everyone there was fat ugly and old (and, with a few exceptions, all male). I didn't have a problem with that, I love the beach and it's even better when you're naked xD. But I couldn't shake this feeling that it wasn't the same, naked fat ugly old guys cease to gross you out after a few minutes but still, regular beaches aren't usually populated by fat ugly old guys and I when I find a nude beach I want it to be exactly the same as a regular one only everyone is naked.
The whole time there I longed for someone younger to show up, some families, groups of friends (yes I'll admit it, I did want a sexy teenage girl to show up :D) even a few of these nudist bringing their grandguyren would have made it feel more natural (no pedo jokes please). And it didn't help that it was a gay nude beach and, me being a decent looking 18 year old, I had about 4 old guys staring at me (lol that wasn't as bad as you'd think, if there was a decent looking 18 year old girl there I'd have been looking at her so I saw thinks from their perspective, yep that's right I'm every dirty old man's dream).
So tell me, I'd like to know... nude beaches, just like normal ones, except everyone is naked (ie not full of old people and perverts), do they actually exist and are there any in Australia or do I have sigh, don the old bathers and go for a swim on the non-nude beach?
Thanks for your help? | | forget about u getting distracted by an old mans body, i mean wtf, is that even normal, being naked on a beach, i mean naked in public places? | Teenage boy - I think I have a weird sexual fetish? I'm 16 years old, and I get very sexually aroused at the thought of somebody (mostly women) seeing me naked "accidentally", like walking in on me nude or seeing me on a beach nude. Is this wrong? I have just started to feel kind of bad about getting aroused by this and need to know if I am normal or not. Thanks for letting me get this off my chest. | Just a 16 year old fantasizing.
For it to be a fetish you actually have to do it.
Until then it is just fantasizing and everyone does that - especially about sex when they are 16. | Is it normal to have coed changing rooms at European Beaches? While traveling in Europe with my family (my wife, two teenage girls, and a teenage boy), we went to the beach. We found a beach in an off-the-beaten-path guidebook that was described as "unique, but not for the old-fashioned". Not being able to fully decode the signs, I asked where I changed clothes. I was told to go through a door. We expected to see separate doors for men and women. Instead, we saw a locker room with a few people (male and female) in various stages of undress. We went to a somewhat secluded section of the locker, and changed there.
It was not a nude beach, although many of the women were topless (as my wife and daughters decided to become during our time on the beach). When we were done, we returned to change. It was not possible to change in the same seclusion, but I guess we were prepared for it this time.
My question: Is this normal for Europe? | | I guess it is. I wouldn;t be surprised. I don't know about beaches but it's quite common at swimming pools. |
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